EMPLOYEE ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

 


EAP Works

Fall 2000  

A Newsletter to Promote Employee Health in the Workplace

 

What does Allen EAP offer?

Allen Employee Assistance Program (EAP) services are a free benefit provided by your employer

to help you and your family deal with life's problems and the stress caused by these problems.

 

   You can talk to an EAP counselor about:

  Ÿ Relationship difficulties

  Ÿ Alcohol or drug abuse

  Ÿ Family or marital conflicts

  Ÿ Financial problems

  Ÿ Job stress

  Ÿ Grief & loss issues

  Ÿ Depression or anxiety

  Ÿ Parenting issues

  Ÿ Gambling concerns

(When should I call Allen EAP?

Does a problem occupy a lot of your time? Does it interfere with your normal activities at work or at home? Have symptoms persisted for more than two weeks? If the answer to any of these questions is yes, it's time to get help.

 

(How do I make an appointment with Allen EAP?

To schedule a confidential appointment, call (319) 235-3550 or toll-free at 1-800-303-9996, Monday - Friday, from 8:00 a.m. to 4:30 p.m. Identify yourself as part of your company's Employee Assistance Program. We'll schedule an appointment to meet your needs, and evening appointments are available.

 

(What if it's an Emergency?

If a personal crisis occurs when our office is closed, call (319)235-HELP or toll-free at 1-800-303-9996. An EAP counselor will contact you within one hour of your call to help you stabilize the situation.

 

Alcohol and Women

The magnitude of differences between the sexes has been debated all throughout history. It is only recently that research on  gender differences and alcoholism has been conducted. This research seems to suggest that women drink for different reasons than men, are more vulnerable to negative physical effects of alcohol use, and need different types of treatment than men. Women of all ages and ethnicity can become alcoholics. This disease does not discriminate according to age or ethnic background.

  

Women may drink for different reasons than men. Recent studies show that 70% of women in treatment for alcohol use had been sexually abused as children, as opposed to only 12% of men. Many times women who abuse alcohol are currently in situations where they are physically, mentally, or sexually abused.

  

Women alcoholics are less obvious than men. Women’s symptoms of alcoholism may be less apparent than men’s, so doctors and family members often do not recognize the problem. Men can become involved in increased traffic accidents and violence associated with alcohol use. Women’s alcoholism is shown in more subtle ways such as depression.

  

Women may be more vulnerable to the negative consequences of alcohol use.

    Because women’s bodies have less water volume than men, women experience the effects of alcohol after fewer drinks than men of the same size.

    Women can develop liver damage in a shorter period of time and after consuming less alcohol than men, because of differences in metabolism.

    A recent study showed that women alcoholics had greater brain damage than men alcoholics and non-alcoholic women.

    Studies also show that women who are heavy drinkers are at an increased risk for developing heart disease and breast cancer.

    Recent surveys show that there is a direct relationship between alcohol use and the incidence of violent victimization such as date rape or physical

     abuse.

  

Women do not respond well to traditional forms of treatment that consist of first breaking the addict down mentally. Many times, female alcoholics suffer from depression, abuse, or self-esteem problems. They need to identify and cope with these issues, as well as the alcohol addiction itself.

 

Contact Allen EAP if you believe you or a loved one suffer from alcoholism.

 

Source: National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism, December 1999, and Professional Counselor, August 2000

 

This Free Test could

Save Your Life . . . . .

 

Between 17 and 20 million Americans each year develop some form of depression.  If you think you may have depression, attend National Depression Screening Day on October 5, 2000. People with depression often feel alone, not realizing that depression affects many people.  One out of every five adults may experience a depression at some point in their lives.

 

Þ Twice as many women as men suffer from depression, but risks for bipolar disorder (manic-depression) are similar in men and women.

Þ Recent studies have shown that heart attack survivors with major depression have a three to four times greater risk of dying within six months than those who do not suffer from depression.

Þ Teen suicide rates have increased more than 300% since the 1950’s.

 

 

Common symptoms of depression include:

§      feelings of sadness

§      loss of pleasure in usual activities

§      feelings of hopelessness, helplessness, or worthlessness

§      changes in sleep and appetite

§      loss of energy

§      restlessness and thoughts of death or suicide

 

Unfortunately, fewer than half of those suffering from the disorders actually receive treatment; however, depression is one of the most treatable of illnesses, with the vast majority of sufferers showing improvement in as little as eight weeks.

 

New this Year . . .

Depression Screenings by Appointment

Includes

    Video on Depression      

    Brief Consult with a Mental Health Professional

    Questionnaire            

    Educational Materials and Referral Information

 

Call 319-235-3550 to schedule a FREE Screening Appointment for Thursday, October 5, 2000

Helping Yourself in Times of Grief

No two people will experience a loss of a loved one in exactly the same way. Here are guidelines written by people who have worked their way through their grief.

 

Accept your Grief. Time alone does not heal grief. To work through it you must accept and deal with it. Remember it is a natural healing process. Roll with its tides.

 

Find Models. You may need evidence that survival and growth are possible. Look for someone who can give you this hope. Books and support groups may be good places to begin.

 

Learn About Grief. Many a person who has learned about grief has declared . . . “I found out I’m not crazy . . . I’m grieving.” Understanding grief can make it safer and more predictable.

 

Accept Your Feelings. Grief has many feelings . . . some very intense. Accept them and they will help you learn about yourself and the meaning of your loss. Lock them up inside you, and you will lock away parts of yourself.

 

Pace Yourself. Grief takes energy. You may tire easily. A slower pace alternated with periods of diversion and mild exercise will maximize healing. So will good nutrition.

 

Involve Yourself in Work or Meaningful Activity. It can help you maintain direction, control, and purpose, and occupy your mind.

 

Don’t be Afraid to have Fun. Laughter IS good medicine. Allow yourself opportunities for diversion and freshness. Children and

pets are great providers of healing.

 

Hitch Your Wagon to a Star. You've got to have hope. Faith is not the absence of fear, but the willingness to go on when fear is present. Healing will come eventually.

    Source: Healing & Growing through Grief

 

Allen Memorial Hospital will facilitate a grief support group, A Time for Healing Tuesdays,

September 19 - October 17, 11:30 a.m. - 1:00 p .m., with a Memorial Service September 10.

Call Pastoral Care at 235-3694 to register.

There is no charge.

 

EAPWorks is published quarterly by Allen Memorial Hospital for Allen EAP clients to provide reliable information on health-related topics. It is not intended to provide medical advice on personal health matters, which should be obtained directly from a physician.